Islamic Parenting System

 Today I want to share with you a very beautiful and short story. It was the smallest story but when I read it completely then  it seemed as the whole world is imprisoned in this little story.  Hope you will also like this. One young man had a very good heart and he wanted to go to the house of Allah in his young energetic age.So he saved money from his minor salary and wished that one day his money would be enough and he would fulfill his dream. At one day he gathered the money and he was ready to go to the house of Allah but something happened that one day it was very hot and he was in a bad condition. He also went to his parents' room in the next room and saw that his parents were sitting unwell from the heat bath with sweat He went out and fetched some goods from the bazaar which made some cold water and cool environment for his parents room and make them comfortable. He thought that if I could arrange some cool air for my parents today, Allah would arrange some cool air for me

According to the month of Rabi ul Awal 🌙  All the blogs of this month will be with reference to Rabi-ul-Awal. The month of Rabi’ Al-Awwal is a wonderful time to remind ourselves of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) in our lives.no doubt we remember our beloved prophet with our every breath . One of the greatest ways to love Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) is simply by knowing how much he has done for us with love and care.Did you know? He saved his ultimate supplication for us, his followers…on the day of judgment. Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: “Allah has given one du’a to every single prophet and every single messenger, that He has guaranteed that He will respond to. And every single prophet has used up this du’a for himself in this world, except for me. I have saved it and I have not used it and I will not use it in this life. I have kept it for my Ummah and I will use it for them on the Day of Judgement. And my du’a will be, O Allah, forgive my enti

Excessive use of mobiles in children. Nowadays it is seen that children use mobile phones a lot and their parents are very upset because children use mobile phones too much. How can this be improve?We will discuss it and also discuss how to reduce the use of mobile phones in children. Mobile phones are a waste of children's time and at the same time it harms the health of children as it makes their eyesight weak and they become lazy.Children become obese due to constant sitting. We suffer from visual impairment as well as obesity. We have to see how children can be saved from this bad habit. It is a great responsibility on parents. They are required to keep their children away from mobile phones. How??? ****The first solution of this problem is to give proper and quality time of your children . Parents should give their children the quality time to take time out of their tasks and give time to their children. This builds self-confidence in children and they share their every probl

  One of the best sayings i want to share it with you all hope so you will also like and appreciate it . thanks 😊 stay in touch.

 In our last blog we talked about the types of parents in which we mentioned Dominant parents.Today we can discuss remaining three types of parents. Type 2: Permissive Parents or Lenient  These parents are gentle and flexible in dealing with their children, such as  1- Treating children like friends instead of treating them like mothers or fathers.   2. Encourage the children to talk about their problems.  3- They do not usually encourage wrong or right choice. Don't expect too much from children.  5- Most of the children's work, things are ignored.  If the following statements come true for you, then you are the lenient mother or father of this type: you make rules but rarely insist on enforcing them to follow. Second: You don't remember the results most of the time. Third: You think that the less you influence your child, the better they can learn: If you deal with your children according to the same statements So you are counted among the second type of parents who a

Yes we were talking about the temperament of parents in the training of children, then today we will tell you in detail how much the influence of the temperament of parents is in the training of children and today we will talk about the Dominant parents. Governing parents treat their children this way. 1- Interacts with children in an authoritative manner.   2- Do not allow children to interfere in their daily problems.  3- Make strict rules at home.   4 -Want to follow the rules they make in all circumstances.   5-Have high expectations of children.   6- Children are not given any choice in any kind of choice.  Aren't you such a mother or father? Do any of these three statements come true for you?   You understand that children should not see or hear anything: You don't care about the feelings of the children at all. If any of these statements come true for you, then you can be a domineering mother or father. Parents who make rules for their children want them to follow th

  "If you want to change the fruit of the tree, you have to change the seed of the tree first"(Socrates) We have often seen people complain that our children do not listen to us. Every person who complains is irresponsible. He has the ability to work, but he cannot recognize himself. Before that, man must know himself and as parent it's necessary to know your self. Man cannot change his form, but man can change his behavior and his morals The best formula for you is : "To make yourself the way you want your child to look" "Children are deeply influenced by their parents" If you want to see your children succeed and confident, first make a commitment to change yourself . Experts divide parents into four categories: *The first type is domineering parents *The second type is mild parents  *The third type is careless parents and  *The fourth type is trustworthy and authoritative parents. Now we go one by one in detail Inshallah we will tell you in our nex

 Ramadan is the 9th month of Islamic calendar bring with lots of   "Rehamataen" and "Barkataen" "Sahoor and ifftar",  "Namaz and taraweeh"  "talawat and qeraat"  and many more bounties and happiness. Many of us want to do well in the month of Ramadan.But we're not exactly sure how to maximize the blessings and gain Allah's pleasure.We sometimes get overzealous at the start, and then exhaust ourselves by the 1st week of fasting.So that is why it is important to pace yourself and actually have a plan.The plan isn't to pack as many things as possible in your day - but to gain clarity on what's most important that you should be doing.And with clarity, inshallah there will be calmness and tranquility within the 30 days of Ramadan, and beyond.Because by then, you know exactly what you need to be doing, and when. Many amongst us are busy Muslim professionals - juggling work, family, kids, ibadah, suhoor, iftar, Qur'an, Tara

 If the child is laughing and playing, it is a star in the eyes of the parents and if the child is angry, mischievous and terrifying, then it is a big problem for the parents, especially the mother. If you often feel that your child is on you ... Believe me, you are not alone in this regard. Many mothers are disturbed by such children. Children of this temperament are experts in getting their work done by putting any kind of pressure on their parents.  No one will blame you for avoiding or being a little harsh on a child with such a temperament, but if you follow a few guidelines, this four-point agenda will automatically solve many of your problems.    ##Learn to anticipate the arrival of a storm. ##Understand your child's habits well so that stress does not cause you mental distress. According to their nature, children want to see their order fulfilled in 90 seconds and for this purpose they try some psychological tactics, cry, shout, beg, make a lot of noise, express anger and f

 Today I am sharing some more beautiful Hadiths for kids.kids learn them by heart and then implement  them in life. Hope so you will like this post don't forget to share your precious opinion.Thanks.

 Today I am sharing some beautiful Hadiths for kids . Show and teach them about these Hadiths .It's very good for kids to learn them in there childhood and then practically follow them in life

  Cartoon play very important role on child's personality.Kids are heavily influenced by the cartoon characters.The time children spend in front of the television today has increased for various reasons. Electronics has become a part of our lives.  70% of children changed their language after watching cartoons  70% of children’s behavior changed after watching cartoons, instead of the rest. Several studies have been concluded: Parents leave their children watching television to finish something or take a break. Setting up a child to watch television is the best way for a parent to get the child to finish their meal. Mean time it's must that the kid's watch something healthy and good not vulgarity, meaning less and time wasting things. Last days I was surfing television channels then I stop my surfing when I watched kids Madni channel I think so it was very Good cartoon.cartoon characters teach the kids in very good manner and teach the Islamic manner s and supplications. It

  Very interesting and important lecture of Qasim Ali shah about children grooming. Stay In Touch 🙂

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  Today we are talking about the beautiful place of Pakistan the paradise on the earth one of the highest Alpine lake in the world.                           "Rush Lake.." The highest lake in Pakistan Rush lake is also one of the highest Alpine lake in the world the breathtaking beautiful lake is located in Nagar valley Gilgit Baltistan PAKISTAN. The viewpoints from the lake are spectacular nearby hilltops presenting a clear view of the peak of Mount K2 interestingly, to run the year the lake remain covered with snow for nine months and for the other three months its water gleam gorgeously under the 🌞 sun. Pakistan is a beautiful mix of people culture and traditions in places the richness of the land and hospitality of its people are our nation's biggest asset Rushlake is not only one of the beautiful place in Pakistan also in all over the world truly fascinating sights remarkable unforgettable. Many foreigners and tourist come in Pakistan and view this remarkable sights

  چچا چھٹیوں کے نام جب سے سنا ہے کہ سکول کھل رہے ہیں تب سے ایک عجیب سی کیفیت سے دوچار ہیں ہم ایک عجیب سی کشمکش ہے کہ یہ کیا ہوگیا ہے کیا واقعی اسکول کھل گئے ہیں۔باخدا ہم ایسےنہ تھے ہم تو الارم لگا کے رات کو سوتے تھے بلکہ الارم کے صبح بولنے سے پہلے ہی اٹھ جاتے تھے رات کو ہی اپنا یونیفارم اور بستھ  بنا کے رکھتے جوتے پالش کر کے بلکہ جرابیں بھی جوتوں کے اندر رکھتے تھے ۔سکول میں لنچ کیا لے کر جانا ہے وہ بھی پہلی رات کو ہی سوچ لیتے تھے کینٹین سے کچھ کھانا ہے تو وہ بھی دماغ میں خاکہ بنا لیتے تھے کہ کل کینٹین پر اپنے دوستوں کے ساتھ مل کر سموسے یا فروٹ چاٹ کھائی جائے گی۔صبح کس استاد کو کس طرح سے ستانا ہے کس ٹیسٹ میں نقل کرنی ہے ہے سب کچھ ایک رات پہلے سوچ لیتے تھے۔ مگر اس کرونا نے اور اس کرونا کی بے شمار و بے تحاشہ چھٹیوں نے ہم جیسے چست باہمت انسان کو کاہل اور کمزور بنا دیا تو کیا کیا جائے ہمارا کیا قصور اس میں۔ اسی امید پر  روزانہ 9 بجے کا خبرنامہ بہت شوق سے دیکھتے ہیں کہ شاید چاچا جی چھٹیاں کچھ اور چھٹیاں دے دیں۔ قسم سے چاچا جی سردیوں کا مشکل ترین کام رضائی سے نکلنا ہے۔ اسکول جانا

  Islamic parenting system Successful child Beauties of Pakistan   Fascinating Pakistan. Pakistan is a beautiful mix of people ,culture traditions and places .The richness of the land and the hospitality of its people or Nation's biggest assets. Pakistan is home of some truly fascinating sights and achievementes.our country has been blessed with a rich history with one of the oldest Civilization in the worldr Originating from this land . We invite you to join us on a journey of fascination. No comments: Post a Comment Smiling kids Home View web version About Me Smiling Kids. View my complete profile Powered by  Blogger .

                                                                            قدرت کے تحفے۔                   قدرت نے انسان کو بے شمار نعمتوں سے نوازا ہے جن کا شمار ناممکن ہے ۔ یہ تمام نعمتیں انسان کی بھلائی اور بہتری کے لیے ہیں ۔ بے شمار نعمتوں میں سے کچھ نعمتوں کے بارے میں جانتے ہیں ان کی افادیت کیا ہے طب نبوی صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم اور احادیث مبارکہ میں ان کے بارے میں کیا بیان کیا گیا ہے ۔                              کھجور   حدیث پاک ہے حضرت محمد صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم نے فرمایا بے شک کھجور میں شفا ہے ۔ کھجورحضور پاک صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم کی پسندیدہ چیز ہے ۔ کھجور کے بے شمار فوائد ہیں جن کا شمار نہیں کیا جا سکتا ۔ ۔کھجور جسم کو بہت زیادہ طاقت دیتی ہے دبلے جسم کو فربہ اور مضبوط بنانے کے لیے کھجور بہت اہم کردار ادا کرتی ہے۔ کھجور معدے کے لئے بہت مفید ہوتی ہے قبض اور تیزابیت ختم کرتی ہے۔ہے۔ عجوہ کھجور نبی کریم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی مرغوب ترین غذا تھی ۔                                   زیتون  حدیث پاک میں ہے ۔ زیتون کا تیل کھانے میں بھی استعمال کرو اور سر اور جسم کی مالش میں بھی کیو

 As children get older, that confidence can be as important as the skills themselves. To thrive, kids need to trust in their own capabilities while, at the same time, knowing that they can handle it if they aren’t successful at something. It’s by experiencing mastery and rebounding from failure that they develop healthy self-confidence . Here are some ways you can set kids up to feel capable and get the most mileage out of their skills and talents. Model confidence yourself.  Don’t get upset about mistakes. Encourage them to try new things. Allow kids to fail. Help kids to find their passion.  Set goals . Celebrate their effort.  Set them up for success.   Show your love.

 Family meetings and meal times Quality Family Time: To discuss any issues and the smooth running of the family home – let family members take turns to chair the meeting. Children will learn the importance of the family unit and will love being in charge! Through such family meetings, we are teaching them to be leaders, to manage and be managed, presentation and speaking skills and how to resolve issues. A lot of important information is exchanged over meal times because everyone comes together to share their day, their plans and experiences. If we can establish strong family ties, our children as the future members of the ummah will be able to build a strong community in sha Allah.  Play with your kids: Have Fun Play a family game together. In my meetings with my children, we say one thing we love about each other and if someone is upset we all come together for a “family hug” – it’s such a great feeling of security and warmth knowing your family is there for you. We will discuss some

 Engage the kids in beneficial activities. Expose your children to Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He)’s creation and by taking them for walks in the parks, visiting the zoo, or watching the sunset –  My children love it and they love watching the moon and the stars the most! Many of our Islamic activities are built upon the lunar system: . Let them understand the rising and setting of the moon and the sun – it reconnects them with Allah’s creation and Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) Himself. Teach your children swimming, horse riding, famous proverbs and good poetry. Gardening is another great activity you can do with them.     In a hadith, the Prophet (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) said “Teach your children swimming, archery and horse riding”. In another narration, he said, “Practice archery and horseback riding.” [Sahih Muslim] Cut the electronic baby sitter to a bare minimum – I mean the television. If you can do without it, the