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Which type of parents you are???

 In our last blog we talked about the types of parents in which we mentioned Dominant parents.Today we can discuss remaining three types of parents.

Type 2: Permissive Parents or Lenient

 These parents are gentle and flexible in dealing with their children, such as

 1- Treating children like friends instead of treating them like mothers or fathers.  

2. Encourage the children to talk about their problems.

 3- They do not usually encourage wrong or right choice. Don't expect too much from children.

 5- Most of the children's work, things are ignored. 

If the following statements come true for you, then you are the lenient mother or father of this type: you make rules but rarely insist on enforcing them to follow. Second: You don't remember the results most of the time. Third: You think that the less you influence your child, the better they can learn: If you deal with your children according to the same statements So you are counted among the second type of parents who are moody. They only move forward when there is a very serious problem. They ignore children's actions a lot and follow the philosophy of "children are children".

 Impact and effects

Children raised by such parents are not far ahead in the field of education. They do not tolerate anyone's knowledge and do not like restrictions. They may have character problems. However, don't worry too much about discouraging wrong choices or misbehavior. They often have more self-loathing and are less likely to grieve. These children also have a lot of health problems when they grow up, such as obesity because such parents do not stop their eating habits too much. That is why such children have so many problems. 



Third type: Parents who are not involved in the training.

Parents who are related to this type expect their children to grow up on their own and get the right training. 

 2- Children's personality is completely unaware of education, training and future. 

 3- Give very little time to children. 

 4 Have no involvement with children in any way. For example, if a father wants to smoke in front of his child, he should not think about the emotional and psychological effects of his actions on his child. However, the cruelty and behavior of these parents is often unintentional. If these statements come true for you, then you are a mother or father who is not involved in the training of children.You don't ask your child about his school or homework.  Secondly, you hardly know that your child gets up and sits with which children.  Third: You rarely sit with a child.  Such parents do not care what their child does or does not do.  They don't even know how to raise children.  What methods should be adopted for their training and friendship?  Such mothers and fathers are very upset with the office heart and get upset for small things but do not pay attention to solving problems.

Impact and effects 

Children who grow up under the influence of such parents suffer from severe autism.  They are not  important in school.  Schoolchildren, neighbours and friends are upset because of their behavior.  They do not state.  Happiness is rare and they are always ready to do whatever they want.

Fourth type: Reliable and Authentic Parents


The fourth type of parents are concerned about their children, so they take the issues in their training seriously and try to solve them. 

1- Problems related to children's behavior and behavior,.When children do good deeds, they become Happy and encourage them . They worry and try to close them. - they play Positive and  constructive role in children. -do good deeds with them even children do good deeds. If the following statements come true for you, then you can do it. This type of mother or father: Always try to register with child and establish a relationship with them Second: You also pay attention to the rules that you make in front of the children so that they also understand these rules. Third: You make rules and regulations at home. These are the parents who of course make some rules and regulations for their home and children because without it Discipline is not possible but keep in mind the human feelings and emotions of their children and revise their rules if necessary. They are ready to change.

Impact and effects 

Children who grow up with such parents are happy and successful These children are able to make better decisions when they grow up and have the courage to face some risks.  Therefore, the children of such parents are the responsible member of the society. 

 Here we can only conclude that the fourth type of parents are better than the first three types of parents and they have never heard better in life.  Most of us mothers live in different types from time to time.  It is not possible for you to be 100% trained.  However, you can find out about yourself that most of the time you adopt some kind of pairing, that is your style.  The purpose of presenting these four types of parenting to you is to describe and know yourself as a parent and then try to speak for yourself in light of it.  Because you know this law of nature,

" You must first adapt yourself to the way you want your children to be."



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