Islamic Parenting System

 Importance of salah. The Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said: “Teach your children to pray when they are seven and punish them for neglecting it when they reach the age of ten.” [Abu Dawud] Be punctual with your salah, get into the habit of praying at the earliest hour, teach this to your children, and they will be more than likely to be punctual in everything else they do. Make prayer times a family event: even if children are not of age, let them join in or sit quietly; so that when salah becomes obligatory upon them, they are firm and ready to speak to the King of kings with full concentration  Once our Prophet asked his Companions: - What do you say? If there is a river in front of the house of one you and if that person takes a bath in that river five times a day, would there be any filth left on him? The Companions said: - There would not be any filth left on him. Our Prophet said: - “Praying five times a day is just like that

  Embed the love and power of Allah in your children Teach them to say “la-illaha illa Allah” (there is no god but Allah) as a start of establishing the love of Allah. Allah says: “O ye who believe, save yourself and your family from the fire.” [Qur’an: Chapter 6, Verse 66] Instill in them the belief that all things happen by the will of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He): if they ask you for something, ask them to pray two rakaahs with you and make du’aa to Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) to provide whatever they want. This way, you’re teaching your child that when we ask, we ask from Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) alone, and we rely on Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) for our provision. Teach them to love Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) and follow His laws through your conversations with them. It’s absolutely crucial for our children to understand

" Raising productive and confident    Muslim kid" Productive moms’ goals are: To establish the oneness of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) in their hearts • To love the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) • To teach them life skills and values that will see them into adulthood. But where do we start? Where Luqman [as] did! His main focus was to establish Allah in his son’s heart, by teaching him:  • that God (Allah) is One, and the Only: He has no partners or associates • that Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) knows everything in the heavens and the earth and is aware of everything you do • to have and develop clear goals in life • to have a clear vision and focus of life Let’s get started!  In our next blog we will share some essential skills to raise productive and confident kid .

                           "بچوں کی تربیت" ہمارے پیارے محمد صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم نے   فرمایا،"باپ اپنی اولاد کو جو کچھ دے سکتا ہے اس میں  سب سے بہتر تعلیم و تربیت ہے'" ایک اور جگہ پر ہمارے پیارے محمد صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم نے فرمایا "کسی باپ نے اپنی اولاد کو کوئی عطیہ اورتحفہ حسن ادب اور اچھی سیرت سے بہتر نہیں دیا۔" اولاد اللہ کی طرف سے دیا گیا ایک انمول اور خوبصورت تحفہ ہے جس کا کوئی نعم البدل نہیں ہے ۔اولاد ایک عظیم تحفہ عظیم اللہ کی طرف سے انسان کو دیا گیا ہے پھر اس تحفے کا خیال رکھنا اس کی پرورش کرنا اس کے ٹھیک طریقے سے تربیت کرنا والدین کی بہت بڑی ذمہ داری ہے۔ آج ہم آپ کو بچوں کی تربیت کے بہترین اصول بتائیں گے گے اسلام سے زیادہ طاقتور٫صراط المستقیم اور مضبوط کچھ بھی نہیں ہمیں دین اسلام نے بچوں کی تربیت کی جو اصول بتائے ہیں وہ بہترین ہیں. اسلام دین فطرت ہے .اس نے انسانیت کی ہر دور میں رہنمائی کی ہے. حضرت محمد صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے عملی طور پر ایک مثالی اسلامی معاشرہ تشکیل دیا اس معاشرے میں چھوٹے بڑے امیر غریب بچے مرد اور خواتین کے حقوق و فرائ

  ابتدا ہے رب جلیل کے بابرکت نام سے۔۔ ۔  جب ہر کام کی شروعات اللہ کے بابرکت نام سے ہو تو  کام میں ہمیشہ برکت ہو جاتی ہےتو لکھنے کا کام بھی اللہ کے بابرکت نام سے ہی شروع کیا جائے۔  لکھنے کا جراثیم تو بچپن سے ہی پائے جاتے تھے اور کچھ  تھوڑا بہت لکھا بھی لیکن باقاعدہ لکھنے کا سوچا تو اللہ کے نام سے ہی شروع کیا تو ہی ہر کام میں برکت اور کامیابی ہے  ۔  اللہ   وہ پاک زات جو اپنے بندے سے ستر ماؤں جتنا پیار کرتا ہے۔ ایک مرتبہ اللہ تعالی کا نام لیں تو ستر مرتبہ جواب دیتا ہے ہم دل کے کانوں سے سنے تو ضرور اس کے جواب کو پا لیں گے۔ وہ جس نے رحمت کو اپنے اوپر لازم کرلیا اور کہہ دیا کہ میری رحمت میرے غصے پر حاوی ہے۔  جب ساری دنیا  تمہیں دھتکار دے تمہارے لیے دروازہ بند کردے مگر اس کی رحمت کا دروازہ پھر بھی تمہارے لئے کھلا ہے ہر وقت تمہیں گلے لگانے کو تیار توبہ و مغفرت کے انتظار میں تمہارا منتظر وہ  اللہ  جو گناہوں   سے توبہ کرنے پر معاف فرما دے جیسے وہ گناہ کبھی کیے ہی نہ ہو . مکھی کے سر جتنا آنکھوں سے ٹپک نے والے آنسو پر بخشش کے سمندر بہا دے۔ وہ اللہ جو تنہائی میں بھی ساتھ جلوت میں  شہ رگ

 Now we are going to explain the last two principles of Islam regarding children's training. Principle#4 Children need boundaries Without boundaries, society would be in chaos as anyone can do anything and infringe others’ rights. The same goes with the child. He needs a set of boundaries to guide his behavior, which gives the child the freedom to act and behave within them. If he does not know what the boundaries are then he will always be testing you with his behavior to see what is acceptable and what is not. Remember: Set rules and limits for everyone in the family (including yourself!) and take care to explain to your child why he must obey them. Children love logical reasoning, but make it simple. Principle#5 Children need responsibilities to follow Giving responsibility at an early and appropriate age helps the child realize that if he does not do what he is supposed to then it will affect others and let them down. It also prepares the child for when the time comes for him t

 Salam to my all readers . How are you I hope you are all well and happy and enjoying the good health.  After a long time I have contacted you again I am feeling very happy and excited to write again and to complete this blog . As we mentioned in the previous blogs about the children's training today I will tell you further about these 5 basic principles of islam about children training. These are: Ø Children are born pure in nature Ø Parents are responsible to lead and guide the children Ø All the guidance done with mercy and kindness Ø Children need boundaries Ø Children need responsibilities to follow These are the five main principles to follow. NOW we are going to explain and understand them one by one in comprehensive way.  Principle#1 Children are born pure Our beloved Muhammad s.a.w.w said: “No child is born except on al fitra (human nature)and then his parents make him jewish, Christian ,or magi an” The hadith states that Allah has created children pure and sinless

.              Salam to all of my readers and followers how are you hope so you are all enjoying the good health.             STAY  HOME AND STAY SAFE. In our last blog we were discussing about the Five main PRINCIPLES of islam to care our child. These are: Ø   Children are born pure in nature Ø   Parents are responsible to lead and guide   the children Ø   All the guidance done with mercy and kindness Ø   Children need boundaries Ø   Children need responsibilities to follow These are the five main principles to follow. NOW we are going to explain and understand   them one by one in comprehensive way.                   Principle#1 Children are born pure Our beloved Muhammad s.a.w.w said: “No child is born except on al fitra (human nature)and then his parents make him jewish, Christian ,or   magi an” The hadith states that Allah has created children pure and sinless no blame can be placed on a child if he do anythin