Islamic Parenting System

                                                                            قدرت کے تحفے۔                   قدرت نے انسان کو بے شمار نعمتوں سے نوازا ہے جن کا شمار ناممکن ہے ۔ یہ تمام نعمتیں انسان کی بھلائی اور بہتری کے لیے ہیں ۔ بے شمار نعمتوں میں سے کچھ نعمتوں کے بارے میں جانتے ہیں ان کی افادیت کیا ہے طب نبوی صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم اور احادیث مبارکہ میں ان کے بارے میں کیا بیان کیا گیا ہے ۔                              کھجور   حدیث پاک ہے حضرت محمد صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم نے فرمایا بے شک کھجور میں شفا ہے ۔ کھجورحضور پاک صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم کی پسندیدہ چیز ہے ۔ کھجور کے بے شمار فوائد ہیں جن کا شمار نہیں کیا جا سکتا ۔ ۔کھجور جسم کو بہت زیادہ طاقت دیتی ہے دبلے جسم کو فربہ اور مضبوط بنانے کے لیے کھجور بہت اہم کردار ادا کرتی ہے۔ کھجور معدے کے لئے بہت مفید ہوتی ہے قبض اور تیزابیت ختم کرتی ہے۔ہے۔ عجوہ کھجور نبی کریم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی مرغوب ترین غذا تھی ۔                                   زیتون  حدیث پاک میں ہے ۔ زیتون کا تیل کھانے میں بھی استعمال کرو اور سر اور جسم کی مالش میں بھی کیو

 As children get older, that confidence can be as important as the skills themselves. To thrive, kids need to trust in their own capabilities while, at the same time, knowing that they can handle it if they aren’t successful at something. It’s by experiencing mastery and rebounding from failure that they develop healthy self-confidence . Here are some ways you can set kids up to feel capable and get the most mileage out of their skills and talents. Model confidence yourself.  Don’t get upset about mistakes. Encourage them to try new things. Allow kids to fail. Help kids to find their passion.  Set goals . Celebrate their effort.  Set them up for success.   Show your love.

 Family meetings and meal times Quality Family Time: To discuss any issues and the smooth running of the family home – let family members take turns to chair the meeting. Children will learn the importance of the family unit and will love being in charge! Through such family meetings, we are teaching them to be leaders, to manage and be managed, presentation and speaking skills and how to resolve issues. A lot of important information is exchanged over meal times because everyone comes together to share their day, their plans and experiences. If we can establish strong family ties, our children as the future members of the ummah will be able to build a strong community in sha Allah.  Play with your kids: Have Fun Play a family game together. In my meetings with my children, we say one thing we love about each other and if someone is upset we all come together for a “family hug” – it’s such a great feeling of security and warmth knowing your family is there for you. We will discuss some

 Engage the kids in beneficial activities. Expose your children to Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He)’s creation and by taking them for walks in the parks, visiting the zoo, or watching the sunset –  My children love it and they love watching the moon and the stars the most! Many of our Islamic activities are built upon the lunar system: . Let them understand the rising and setting of the moon and the sun – it reconnects them with Allah’s creation and Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) Himself. Teach your children swimming, horse riding, famous proverbs and good poetry. Gardening is another great activity you can do with them.     In a hadith, the Prophet (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) said “Teach your children swimming, archery and horse riding”. In another narration, he said, “Practice archery and horseback riding.” [Sahih Muslim] Cut the electronic baby sitter to a bare minimum – I mean the television. If you can do without it, the