Islamic Parenting System

 Importance of salah. The Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said: “Teach your children to pray when they are seven and punish them for neglecting it when they reach the age of ten.” [Abu Dawud] Be punctual with your salah, get into the habit of praying at the earliest hour, teach this to your children, and they will be more than likely to be punctual in everything else they do. Make prayer times a family event: even if children are not of age, let them join in or sit quietly; so that when salah becomes obligatory upon them, they are firm and ready to speak to the King of kings with full concentration  Once our Prophet asked his Companions: - What do you say? If there is a river in front of the house of one you and if that person takes a bath in that river five times a day, would there be any filth left on him? The Companions said: - There would not be any filth left on him. Our Prophet said: - “Praying five times a day is just like that

  Embed the love and power of Allah in your children Teach them to say “la-illaha illa Allah” (there is no god but Allah) as a start of establishing the love of Allah. Allah says: “O ye who believe, save yourself and your family from the fire.” [Qur’an: Chapter 6, Verse 66] Instill in them the belief that all things happen by the will of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He): if they ask you for something, ask them to pray two rakaahs with you and make du’aa to Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) to provide whatever they want. This way, you’re teaching your child that when we ask, we ask from Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) alone, and we rely on Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) for our provision. Teach them to love Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) and follow His laws through your conversations with them. It’s absolutely crucial for our children to understand

" Raising productive and confident    Muslim kid" Productive moms’ goals are: To establish the oneness of Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) in their hearts • To love the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) • To teach them life skills and values that will see them into adulthood. But where do we start? Where Luqman [as] did! His main focus was to establish Allah in his son’s heart, by teaching him:  • that God (Allah) is One, and the Only: He has no partners or associates • that Allah subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) knows everything in the heavens and the earth and is aware of everything you do • to have and develop clear goals in life • to have a clear vision and focus of life Let’s get started!  In our next blog we will share some essential skills to raise productive and confident kid .